Xabil Rawan says that the fathers are “in hell.” Does she have a point?
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– In hell. While appearing on Call her father Podcast last week, pop star Chapel Rawan began a storm of social media anger when she told hosts Alex Cooper that many of her friends in her childhood who are mothers do not do a great job.
“All my friends who have children in hell. I do not know anyone, in reality I do not know anyone, and he is happy and they have children in this era,” the 27 -year -old replied after I was asked if she wanted children one day. “I literally did not meet anyone happy, anyone with a light in his eyes, anyone sleeps.”
Although Rawan and Cooper quickly moved to the following topic, her comments are spreading like wildfires through sites such as Reddit and Tactok, where many mothers were committed, while others admitted that the United States does not make motherhood easy, especially for working women.
While many videos have re -conversation with decades -old mothers, they were shocked by responses in particular, from rural singer Marine Morris. Morris, a single mother of a 5 -year -old child, said that she had not taken any problem with what Rawan said. It is difficult to be one of the parents, and it is also difficult not to be one of the parents, especially as a woman, “I have paid you all day every day.”
Morris said in a Tiktok video. “I have seen a lot of people disappearing from this industry because they could not keep both.”
The singer touched on her traffic squad and her protection that she put to employees as soon as she had her child, including maternity and paternity leave. Then she continued to shed light on the case that Rawan drew attention (as she took the heat for) – the lack of the health benefits of many people in the music industry.
“You work throughout your life in music, there is no health care, no support, then you also want to start a family and it is only impossible,” Morris said. “With a little strength I have, as my CEO and for and for obtaining, LLC, I provided this health care for my band. This should not be the conversation?”
It is easy to get angry and defensive about the comments made by the young pop star. But Rawan is not the problem here – it simply recognizes what many women feel. The birth of a child, especially when she works in an industry with a few benefits and protection, is to change life and is likely to be job. This is not because of mothers, but because companies and the United States as a whole can do a lot to support parents and families.
Alisia Adamik
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