- I and my best friend met in New York, then we moved to Denver.
- As soon as we moved, our friendship changed, and suddenly ghusl.
- I tried to understand what I did wrong, but I will never know.
I recently endured the disintegration of the first friendship – one of them caught me to guard and ended without explanation.
Seven years ago, I was living in New York when a joint friend gave me to a man with similar interests and personal features. We have even identified with the same sports teams. We have made each other by reciting foreign dialects or comedy parts as they also melted into the sofas while spinning Vinyel Floyd.
Since we spent more time together, it has grown side by side, and we invest in the personal growth of each other.
During the epidemic, I moved to Denver, and after two years of staying in contact, he followed me because he wanted to easily reach nature. But not in an unimportant way, he moved, knowing that I will be there for him.
This step will eventually lead to the end of friendship, which leaves me painful and confused.
We no longer fit together in Denver
Early re -communication was a happy chaos. We were golf in great mountainous sessions, and we hit the bars to watch football, and most importantly, to continue laughing.
During his stability, I tried to expand his social circle by introducing him to my friends. Unfortunately, this was not smooth as I hope.
Then I spent more time traveling than staying in Denver last summer. When I went back in the fall, I communicated with the knocking, but unusual, he did not respond.
After a few other texts, I still have not heard of it. By the fifth text that was not answered, I am no longer in denial. One of my favorite people was my installation.
I tried to contact it. After there is no response, I made text messages to express if you were wrong, I wanted to apologize.
My desire to correct the ship has ended in the coup
My friend took two weeks to respond – pregnancy to formulate three paragraphs.
In Mini -ssay, he shared that he no longer wanted to be friends anymore and asked me not to contact him. Friendship ended.
I would like to believe that my lack of response was due to acceptance, but it was likely that I was unable to speak.
A few months ago, he was and I was traveling in the limits of our relationship, from quoting the moments of “South Park” that occurred to a clear chat from the heart to the heart. Now, he did not even recognize my existence.
I tried to find out the exact mistake
Since this was the first to disintegrate me right, I tried to know where I made a mistake.
My first reaction was to re -create scenarios between us and analyze everything. Was something you said? Can I do something different? Can I stop with him more?
All of these questions were blocked. After weeks of the cavity, I discovered a harsh truth.
When friendship ends, you are not entitled to know anything
At work, a sudden termination often follows answers that explain exactly what you have sinned in this role. Divorce requires reasons to influence legal and financial effects. But with this friendship disintegration, there was no need for interpretations.
My mysterious wrong country is no longer the point. I just had to accept that whether my friend was for a reason or a season, it wouldn’t be for life.
Fortunately, I found the silver lining.
Loss of my best friend made me wake up and double the appreciation of my current close friends. This requires not only to come to good times; It comes to existence through everything. This also means connecting any discontent so that I am not designed again.
