It was getting rid of the right decision, but I still have 4 remorse

This translated article depends on a conversation with Li Larsen37 years old lives in a rally. It was released for length and clarity.

My husband and I met Instagram in 2018, before she reached 30 years old.

His sister continued on Instagram because we worked in the same fashion agency for a long time. I never met her, but she posted a picture with her brother. She commented, “Is your brother single?” It was like, “in fact, it is.” I lived in California after that, so he flew there to conduct an interview, and we ended up to the meeting.

We met, and we have been inseparable since then.

We did a long distance for two years. He lived in a rally at the time, so she moved and then moved to North Carolina for him.

We were involved in August 2021.

Get rid of a traditional wedding ceremony

I grew up, I always imagined myself for a wedding.

I called some places to get some quotes and know its schedule, and they were booked for a year or two. I really don’t want to wait for a long time.

After thinking more, we decided to be the best way. I was already 34 at that point. I was like, “I don’t want to wait. I want to get married now. I have already been with you for four or five years. We took this long time together physically and share, and I am just ready to do the dreaded thing and contact you.”

We got married in November, so we were only participating for a few months.

We erupted in a rally, and I have succeeded perfectly. One of our favorite places is the North Carolina State Museum. I saw on Google that people were flowing there, so I contacted the museum. All you need is, and you can marry on the ground for free. It was a beautiful day in the fall, and the fact that it was free.

We had our parents, photographers and our officials there.

We booked dinner in a restaurant after we got married that night, and we asked for a small cake of a local bakery. This was.

Our parents gave us money for our wedding, and we used it to buy the beach house. We could not do this if we spent all this money at a big wedding.

I liked the clarification, but I wish we had done some things differently

I regret not getting a video photographer. Immediately after we overcame, I saw a lot of people entering the world of content creation for wedding parties, a genius idea.

I didn’t need a luxurious video. I liked to have social content I can see and share. My photographer took some videos, but having a person devoted to taking those moments – like me wearing a dress or doing our covenants – was perfect.

We also did not say our covenants. We used the promises of officers, which were great, but I think this is your chance to write your covenants. You don’t even have to do it in front of the official. You can do it in the morning before you formally marry.

This is your moment. No one is around it. No one listens. You don’t have to feel nervous. You are not on the microphone. You can just express how much you like each other.

I really hope we did that, even if we wrote something and shared it with each other. That is forever to give our children great.

I also hope that I have taken more time preparing. I did my hair and makeup. I spent weeks before he mastered, so I didn’t feel rushing in a day. It took a lot of time to know the best makeup that would look good on the camera. I went to Sephora, and I really felt confident.

I took some videos of myself accelerating to prepare, then threw my dress, and my husband and I went out in the yard and took pictures with our dog.

But I wish I had taken a moment to sit there and cherish the fact that these were my last few moments as a single woman. We have prepared in separate bedrooms, but I wish we had put more time and energy to prepare together, enjoy the champagne, and quiet moments together.

I hope we have a small reception

After the wedding, we went to dinner with our parents, but I wish we had a small reception. We planned to get one after a few months, but that never happened.

After we got married and took the pictures, we went back to our house and we had a chacuxe and some champagne before dinner. It was very useful if we just had our close friends in a rally there to celebrate.

Something I did to compensate that I still had a single party after we got married. We had a surprise, then all my friends are my dear friends and went to Palm Springs.

They were not like, “Wait, she is already married. That’s strange.” All of my friends there were, they were behaving as you were about to get married. It was everything I dreamed of.

The justification was very special

I think many people are planning these high events, and they lose the true meaning of the wedding.

It comes to celebrating your love, journey and only.

The thing at your wedding is that you can do what you want. No one says that you have to walk in the corridor after the bridesmaids and stand there.

You can still feel special and loved as you will spend a big wedding.