- I have always preferred brutal honesty, so I told a completely strange person that his fly was idle.
- He bought a beer and an atom, but I was not looking for a relationship.
- We have been together for nearly 20 years.
“I got off you down.” This is the first thing that I have ever said to my husband now.
In defense, although I did not know him, he was talking to two other people I knew. Also, I am the type who wants people to tell me when I have food in my teeth. I prefer brutal honesty On silent embarrassment.
He thanked me and offered to buy me a drink for my kindness. “I prefer to get an atom.” Mortified does not start describing what I should have felt. I had just told a man whose fly was down and so I wanted an atom Thank you. But when he offered to buy me both and his eyes remained on me, I thought he might like, and my care slipped.
I was not looking for a relationship
Fresh from the relationship, I just promised myself that morning that I am He will not participate with anyone new For at least a few months. We were at a local concert in a small place, and the atom concerned was in the adjacent restaurant. Therefore, I later told him on food and drink. Tell me to find him whenever I wanted to collect my thanks, and that he will be ready.
We have separated from the roads, and returning to my collection of my friends. I thought this would be the end of things, but when I went to leave after the show, he saw me and asked me if I was ready The drink that owes me. I do not remember the words you stumbled, some copy of “You should not do this, really.” But a few minutes after the stool slide next to the bar, there was next to me.
We sat side by side in the bar, and we ordered the beer and corn as I promised, and we started a conversation that lasted until the early hours of the night. People came and went, music beats around us, but nothing is cut off A comfortable intimacy building between us.
It was the beginning of an endless conversation
It does not matter what we talked about (and our topics were covered with a series of cold details to deeper ideas); The conversation was easy. One of the topics was that he was sure that he would be lifetime, but he was hoping that this would be the truth. His ex -girlfriend was in the show, and made him believe that he might have made a mistake in their disintegration. I told him that I thought he had fallen into the wrong matter, and I was sure that he would find someone if he wanted.
As our conversation at night, we discovered something sudden – we were not strangers. One of my close friends had cut off his hair for nearly a decade. I knew his last colleague in the room. Our social circles interfered in dozens, but somehow, we have never met. Or so I thought.
Then he said, “So, where is your friend with curly hair?”
It turned out that this was not our first meeting. We have already met twice before, and also at concerts. to remember. I was not. As I made it clear that my friend and my friend had separated recently, I saw an expression. I could see the moment he realized that he wished he had not mentioned his ex -girlfriend earlier in our conversation.
I never doubted his interest in me
With the end of the night, ask for a phone number and then send me a text message before I ride for five minutes to the house. He wanted me to know, undoubtedly, that he is interested in seeing me again whenever you are ready. We went in our first history after two days and did not stop dating.
Nearly two decades, three cities and three children, and a lot of ascension and landing in life after that, we are still building on the same contact that we felt on that night. All this, my husband was fixed and fixed. On our early dating days, my friends are accustomed to having a brother; These days, they jokingly call us the “objectives of the relationship.” I could not agree more.
A loose, realistic cloud led me to a more perfect life than I imagined. It turns out that love sometimes resembles movies – only with better snacks.
