- I am the mother of two children under the age of 4 years.
- I rely on the ancestors of my children Bomer when I need to care for children.
- They do not always understand the way I brought, but they are trying hard.
I am the mother of a 4 -year -old child and drink 7 months old and who attended daytime care while my husband and I work full -time. Boamer grandparents get a lot of sadness because they are indifferent and tight, but this is not the case for my family. My grandparents of my children are my children’s care weapon and I cannot be a worker without helping them.
I am not the only one, either; I see our school office managers help grandparents to move in the attendance system at least once a week. I have become friendly with some of the ancestors I see regularly in the Baek August. For some millennial generation, grandparents are an important part of our family ecosystem.
We have been considered so closely close to us when choosing a house
When choosing our first house, it was important for us to easily access my mother and injury, who is less than 30 minutes, to make sure that our children can see their ancestors frequently. Both groups of parents in the middle to the late 1970s; I gave birth to my first child in the thirty -six and second in forty, so their time together is precious.
When I attended the youngest day care, I only went three days a week. My mother and wife surprised me by showing her to see her in the other two days so that I could work full time without paying for full -time care. I am sure they had offered even if they lived far away, as it brought them a relatively close difference.
Although they may not understand the regimes of the new paternity and motherhood, they are trying hard
I am grateful for the lack of interrogation of my brother -in -law and my mother from ever in the values of paternity and modern maternity. I am sure they rolled internally at my face when I talk about sleeping cleanliness, bottles tables, and gentle children’s parentage. But they are really trying to adhere to time and notes tables.
I found that my part of this relationship is to allow things not to be made; My child will be fine if someone forgets to put it in a naps for a nap or if my mom is making a hand bottle instead of using our luxury formula.
Fortunately, none of them ever gave me a long violent about how they were doing things when we were children. This mutual respect is what keeps our relationship healthy, and I am grateful because they are open to learning the ways that we think are the best for our children at this time stage, regardless of how absurdity may seem to be.
I learned to choose my battles
As my mother, for the first time suffering from postpartum anxiety, I was turning internally, and watching them feeding the things of my child full of sugar and salt. Four years have passed since I gave birth to my first child and his first grandson. I now realized that their time together is more important than the details. Although I prefer my life not to get diet tea with Stevia, the tea party has much more important than it is in its cup.
They are there when we need them more
Now that all of my children have become full -time care, my mother and my injury are taking them regularly from school to help me schedule cases or to give us a break from the job of paternity and hard motherhood. It may be frustrated when both groups are not available for holidays or sick days because they are always available and yearn for help. These are the moments that I have to pick up myself and recognize the extent of my luck in getting two groups of grandparents ready.
